When we talk about attractiveness, the first thing that comes to mind is physical appearance. However, making yourself more attractive isn’t just about making yourself look good physically. Most of the time it’s more than what make-up and new clothes can provide that matters. Being attractive mentally, emotionally and spiritually is far more important than looking good on the outside, and just as significant for keeping and gaining good people in your life.
- Know Your Worth
Know that you are a valuable human being, because of your character and intelligence, and be proud of that. Project your worth with your head held high. Tell yourself that you deserve to be respected and that you’re a significant person in people’s lives. But be careful not to act conceited; aim for confidence, not arrogance.
- Live in the Moment
Mindfulness is self-awareness. It’s having a knowledge that what’s happening in the present is just as it should be. It’s an attractive trait, because you know when to let go of stress and anxiety and focus on what’s happening in the moment.
- Connect With People Deeply
We are naturally attracted to people who find us interesting. So, if you wish to be more likeable, express your genuine interest to the person by asking probing questions. Whether the person is a potential partner or just a friend, be more interested of knowing the person more instead of telling about yourself.
- Have Some Down Time
Taking care of yourself is a vital part of bringing out the best in you. Take a break from all the stress by enjoying some down time. Choose an activity that’s nourishing to the soul, like reading, yoga or meditation, or go on a vacation, so you return refreshed and more positive at work.
- Be Good With Names
Charming people are good at remembering names, and even small details. When you meet someone who remembers you right away, it makes you feel better about yourself. It makes you feel like you matter, even in a small way, to the person. Try to be mindful of people’s name, and you’ll surely draw them into you as well.
- Be Happy With Simple Things
Whenever you’re faced with something that gives you a choice to be happy or sad/angry/afraid, always choose to be happy and grateful of the situation. A positive outlook in life will make people want to be always near you. And who knows, the smile you always have on your face may lead you to the right partner—one who matches your inner and outer attractiveness.
While your physical appearance is what gets people’s attention, your inner beauty is what makes people stay in your life. Remember that attractiveness has little to do with your face and body, but more on how you treat yourself and the people around you.