Starting a relationship is always a sweet one. You get to meet this person, discover that you both share a lot of similarities, discover just how much you enjoy this person’s company, and then you start wondering whether this is the soul mate you’ve long been waiting for. Ending a relationship on the other hand can be a brutal and brisk affair while for some it can be an agonizing slow painful death. Almost immediately you’re certain this is not the person you’ve been looking for. You even wonder whatever you’ve seen in this other person. Here are some signs when you know it’s about time to end a relationship:
You feel abused in your relationship
If you find yourself in an abusive relationship, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t make a move to end that unhealthy relationship. In fact, the moment that your parent has laid hands on you and shown signs of being an abusive partner is when you should start packing. Staying longer is only an act of denial thinking and hoping that the abusive partner will change later on.
You no longer love the other person as much as you once did
Love should be the basis for your relationship and nothing else. It cannot be out of pity or necessity. If you have realized that you no longer love the other person, then better come honest and open about it right away. You might be doing both yourself and your partner a favor when you do so. If you notice that your partner doesn’t seem to treat you in a loving manner, this can be a sign to get out of the relationship as well.
You can no longer trust the other person
Aside from love, trust is an important component in a healthy loving relationship. Without trust, your relationship is only going nowhere. If you’re partner has done a grave error causing you to lose your trust, your partner should be aware of this so that he or she can be given a second chance and try to earn that trust again.
You’re no longer happy in the relationship
You know that you’re in a healthy relationship when you’re stress-free and happy most of the times. You know that you’re not when you’re always troubled and filled with negative emotions. It’s about time to say goodbye when you’re just unhappy and emotionally stressed for the most part.